floralcharisma (floralcharisma) wrote in asid,

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does simple get boring?

I have been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months now, and have known that I was in love with him for a few months and have been dying to tell him. so a few weeks ago I told him. I'm a big believer that we should say what we feel, no holding back.

anyway, so he didn't say it back right away, which is completely fine, I mean I didn't want a knee-jerk reaction or anything. but it's been a while and I am getting more and more hurt every day. and I'm trying to hide it, which I hate. we have had small conversations about it, but the only thing I get out of him is that he has "been hurt too many times."

what kind of bullshit is this?! does anyone know what this really means? I am a very straighforward person and I don't like games. I am honest and I don't understand how this makes any sense. I don't want to pressure him or anything, but how long can a relatioship survive when one person is completely head-over-heels, and the other either 1)won't say that he loves them, or 2)DOESN'T love them. ahh.

so much for relationship simplicity I guess. I need some advice...what do I do? what does this all mean? are we doomed now? did I ruin everything?
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